By nature, I'm a shy person until I get to know someone. You may even be the same. As an entrepreneur, you can imagine how this is a huge obstacle for me; "What, talk to strangers?? What if I'm rejected?"
That fear can control your destiny. I took my husband up on his suggestion today, take our dog Hercules to Starbuck's. This exercise was just to help me overcome my shyness, extend myself to others, & embrace the possibilities.
Here is what my dog taught me today:
1. Every stranger is worth your genuine smile, even a paw "shake".
2. Nearly every smile is reciprocated.
3. Those that don't smile back still get a smile, it's a gift.
4. People can approach as strangers, & leave as new acquaintances, friends.
5. Those that extend gratitude themselves get "extra special attention", maybe even a hug.
6. Earnest gratitude breaks through any barrier.
7. Never underestimate the power of your earnest intention, & where it can lead.
Hercules was a gift to all he met, as I was and meeting others in return was also a gift. I made a handful of acquaintances today and even handed out my card!
That fear can control your destiny. I took my husband up on his suggestion today, take our dog Hercules to Starbuck's. This exercise was just to help me overcome my shyness, extend myself to others, & embrace the possibilities.
Here is what my dog taught me today:
1. Every stranger is worth your genuine smile, even a paw "shake".
2. Nearly every smile is reciprocated.
3. Those that don't smile back still get a smile, it's a gift.
4. People can approach as strangers, & leave as new acquaintances, friends.
5. Those that extend gratitude themselves get "extra special attention", maybe even a hug.
6. Earnest gratitude breaks through any barrier.
7. Never underestimate the power of your earnest intention, & where it can lead.
Hercules was a gift to all he met, as I was and meeting others in return was also a gift. I made a handful of acquaintances today and even handed out my card!
Have a wonderful evening everyone,
Deborah
